First, you are so right. I have no idea what it is like to be Black. I do know the outrage I felt when I went to the ER with a Black woman who thought she was having a heart attack and we overheard the doctor say, "she says she doesn't do cocaine but check her anyway."
As a white woman, I have been told pain was "in my head" when it was a broken collar bone (all the male docs said it was in my head and a woman doctor saw the fracture). Or when they told me my issues were in my head and I almost bled to death because of a bleeding ulcer.
I also know Black women have a maternal mortality rate that is triple that of a white women (the American MM rate is the highest in the developed world).
Anyone who says Black women don't get inferior medical care isn't paying attention.